A new poll shows that 55% of Americans support gay marriage. For those under the age of 30, that number is 78%.
Conservatives who scream that the courts are going against “the will of the people” are ignoring facts (as usual; they also ignore the fact that a majority of Americans support Obamacare, think abortion and marijuana should be legal, want more gun control, support raising taxes on the wealthy, raising the minimum wage, doing something about campaign finance reform, and do not believe that “corporations are people.” But that’s another topic…)
Anyway, the local federal court struck down Pennsylvania’s anti-gay marriage law yesterday, allowing us here to finally join the rest of the northeast in advancing into the 21st century, away from the prejudices of the past. 
Speaking of which, a friend of mine recently objected to being labeled as “prejudiced” for not supporting gay marriage, and pointed out that being against gay marriage had been the law of the land for years — so was everybody prejudiced before?
In the past, in a different world that we no longer live in, most people never even thought about this issue and I agree that they shouldn’t be called bigots or prejudiced. However, in today’s society, where the information is here and where no one can deny that people’s rights are being violated (only that they agree with the rights being violated) it’s a lot harder to defend yourself against labels like “bigot” or “prejudiced.”
If what you want takes away someone else’s rights for reasons for which they can’t control, then by definition your view is prejudiced, isn’t it?
However, I also think it’s not a good idea to call these people bigots or prejudiced. (Well, most of them — some are so full of hate that they deserve the label). Most people who are against gay marriage are, well, ignorant.
I don’t mean that in an insulting way. Being ignorant is not a bad thing. (I, for instance, am ignorant about calculus, fashion, and football teams.) Ignorant is not the same thing as stupid. Ignorance can be cured with education.
I think people who are against gay marriage are ignorant about the issue. They haven’t really thought it through and once they do, they will come to the right side. Maybe their religion keeps them ignorant (lots of religions do that) and maybe they like being ignorant. But that doesn’t necessarily make them bigots.
I am old enough to remember when the thought of gay marriage was just plain silly. Although I had plenty of gay friends in school and even some gay housemates when I was in college, I never considered marriage as a serious thing for them. Marriage is for men and women, I’d say. And then I wouldn’t think about the issue. It wasn’t until the gay marriage movement started much later that I said to myself, “Hey, they’re right. Why shouldn’t they get married?” I wasn’t a bigot or prejudiced; I just never really thought about it seriously before that time. And I think that’s probably where a lot of people are today.
So let’s encourage them to see the light. Let’s make them see that treating people as second class citizens is wrong, and that we should be encouraging love and marriage.
“We are a better people than what these laws represent, and it is time to discard them into the ash heap of history,” wrote Judge John E. Jones III (a Republican!) in his decision. And he is absolutely correct.
For those keeping score at home, the number of anti-gay marriage lawsuits that have succeeded is up to a grand total of zero.
Oregon is the latest state to affirm equality in marriage. That’s a 100% success rate. Some of my conservative friends (you know who you are) still claim that these laws preventing gay marriage are constitutional. Not sure how many more cases we need to convince you if 100% isn’t enough. 
In Oregon (like Pennsylvania) the Attorney General refused to defend a law that is clearly unconstitutional.
In his opinion, Judge McShane wrote, “Expanding the embrace of civil marriage to gay and lesbian couples will not burden any legitimate state interest … The state’s marriage laws unjustifiably treat same-gender couples differently than opposite-gender couples. The laws assess a couple’s fitness for civil marriage based on their sexual orientation: opposite-gender couples pass; same-gender couples do not. No legitimate state purpose justifies the preclusion of gay and lesbian couples from civil marriage.”
Watch: The attack will come that Judge McShane, who is gay himself, is unable to make this decision because he is biased. Conversely, it is just as easy to argue that he is more qualified than a straight person to make this decision, as he has suffered through the discrimination and knows first-hand its effects.
Might as well say it now, and get it out of the way: If you don’t vote, don’t complain.
Tom Wolf
Tomorrow is primary election day in Pennsylvania. Turn out will be extremely low. It’s a non-Presidential year, and in Pennsylvania, you have to be registered to a party to vote in the primary (sorry, independents).
This means that your vote is worth a lot more. One vote can really make a difference in a small election.
If you are a Pennsylvania resident, this election is tremendously important. Right now, the Republicans have a majority in our state house and in the governor’s office. Our current governor is one of the most unpopular in the entire country and is quite beatable, but we Democrats need to pick someone who can stomp our current governor into the ground.
Electing a Democrat will mean accepting the Obamacare medicare plan into a state that wants it (according to all polls).
Brad Koplinski
I hope you will vote for Tom Wolf for governor and Brad Koplinsky for Lt. Governor. I’ve met both and they’re very committed and intelligent men who deserve your vote. (Brad, by the way, graduated from my law school, so admittedly we spent most of our time together reminiscing about professors we had in common. Not only that, but he knows how to spell “lieutenant.”)
And don’t forget the other races. There are good candidates who deserve your support for state representative and state senate. There may even be other local races on the ballot where your vote is tremendously important (mayor, judge, dog catcher…). Please do a search for your area and see who is running so you can make up your mind.
The tea party planned a huge 30 million person rally yesterday, in which they would demand that the President and all of Congress resign so they could install whatever. You can see how it was all over the news today. Um, well, maybe not. They ended up with about 300. Just 29,999,700 short!
Here’s a video of their planning session:
Those who were there were as active as ever, with their “Impeach Obama” signs and others that just said “Benghazi” as if that explained everything.
They were predominately white and elderly (the Fox News demographic, where the average age of viewers is 68) who hate socialism and socialized medicine. They were in good shape thanks to medicare and could afford to travel to Washington thanks to Social Security.
Of course, these people have the right to protest — but this particular protest was ridiculous. They demand that everyone in American government must resign so that new people will be appointed who will “obey the Constitution” — according to who? Who gets to decide who gets appointed? Who determines whether someone is obeying the Constitution? (This is a common argument among those who really don’t think it through.)
These are people who lost the election and cannot accept that. They can’t see that other people might have different views (and, I might point out, the majority of Americans disagree with them on just about every single issue.) In their world view, everyone who has a different opinion is evil, wrong, and undermining the Constitution.
I will admit that they at least are not advocating the violent overthrow of the government. But the basics are the same. One of the main speakers there yesterday spoke in support of that Bundy rancher who does not accept the legitimacy of the US government.
And the crowd cheered. Such patriots!
(That was sarcasm.)
That Hillary — she really knows how to manipulate us! (Well, according to Fox News). 
For instance, when she fell and hurt her head, Fox was absolutely convinced that it was faked. Obviously it didn’t really happen; she just lied in order to get out of testifying about Benghazi (in one of the many hearings the Republicans have wasted our taxpayer money on).
Well, that narrative has come and gone, because now the question from Fox is, “Does this minor concussion from a year and a half ago prevent her from being President?” Karl Rove even accused her of having “brain damage.”
I am not making this up.
Hey, remember when Fox admitted it was wrong about the fake injury? Ha ha! Just kidding! Maybe in an alternate universe.
The Fox version is this: either she faked it and thus is unfit or she didn’t fake it and thus is unfit. There is no winning scenario for them.
“What we clearly need,” they will say next, “is for Hillary to release her Health Certificate. The long form.”
(Remember: you read it here first.)
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