I love Christmas — the feeling of good cheer, the lights, the trees, the celebrations — why should Christians get all the fun?
Some holidays have become secular so that everyone can enjoy them. I know plenty of Jews who set up Christmas trees and exchange gifts, for instance. (And, even though I am not Jewish either, I join them for the traditional Christmas Chinese dinner.) Although many of the ideas of Christmas are based in religion, many do not require religion at all.
In fact, you don’t have to be Christian to agree with what Christmas is supposed to celebrate. That Jesus had some damned good ideas. Peace on earth, goodwill to all, caring for those less fortunate, being with your family — how can you be against that? Why wouldn’t you want everyone to share in that, no matter what their beliefs? Not to mention festive lights, presents, mistletoe, jingle bells, Christmas parties, Santa Claus, and “How the Grinch Stole Christmas” (The Chuck Jones one, not the Jim Carey one).
That’s why it’s so frustrating to have angry Christians complaining that we have stolen their religion (“Put Christ back in Christmas!”). Let’s ignore for the moment that Jesus was probably born in the spring (when shepherds watched their fields) and that much of this holiday was stolen from earlier religions. Wouldn’t a true Christian be happy that others are celebrating peace? That others use this season to promote the values they supposedly teach?
I know many Christians who welcome all to celebrate with them, no matter their beliefs. I have a feeling that this Jesus guy would approve.
Secular enough for all to celebrate, sure.
It’s not universally secular, though. My favorite part of my family’s Christmas celebration is going to church.
My family does all the secular stuff. We love Christmas! But we don’t do it year round. We do it now, because this is the time of year when we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ. That’s the source of my Christmas joy.
Other people have other sources, and that’s fine. But it is absolutely not secular for everyone.
If I misinterpreted what you meant by, “some holidays have become secular.” It sounds like you mean Christmas is a universally secular holiday. It’s not, when some of us still celebrate the religious part. Everyone who wants to celebrate it should do so, but we don’t all celebrate it the same way.
I meant people who are not Christians can enjoy the non-religious aspects of it.